My name is Margaret Bowman.
I was born in the United Kingdom
in England, a place called Leeds
which is West Yorkshire. My
mother was called Flora. She was
probably dreadfully frustrated
because she was a marvelous
manager and could have run all
sorts of things but it was all
concentrated onto the domestic
and social sphere and it's a small stage. My
father was called Herbert. My
father was a teacher of physics
and maths. A very gentle,
progressive,
Manchester Garden 'leftie'. Cowper St
Elementary School was in
an inner suburb of Leeds. I
remember we did geography
lessons and there was the map
of the world and a great deal
of it was coloured red and that
was the British empire and one
felt one's chest puffing out
with pride that this was
wonderful and at the same time
I must have picked up vibes,
particularly from my father,
that this was all dreadfully
illegitimate and appalling. How
could you feel pride but shame
at the same time? And you did.
Well I started doing...
at really my mother's behest, a course to
become a teacher of domestic
science in England and I was
teaching Domestic Science at
the Oxford High School and
there was a political meeting... I
can't remember who it was... it
was some sort of Tory chap who was
gonna talk about something or
another and I thought, oh well,
yeah, I'll go and have a
look. Anyway, a chap came in
and he was introduced and we
had a little gossip and then
this chap who had come in said
"would you like to come have tea
with me one day?" and I said "well,
why not?" And I think it
was the first time.
I mean he was a total nutter, God bless
him. He said "I'm going to marry
you". I said "Well don't be silly, Dear".
He was quite right, he did!
My late husband was
Scottish. We went to Glasgow. I
had my first child in Glasgow.
We returned to Leeds.
I was busy. We have five daughters
and two sons. So, I was quite busy
This was taken in England. The
two youngest were not born and
then we came here. Early August
1959. It was not a very good
journey. Youngest child, then a
baby of, well he had his first
birthday actually in August
after we arrived. He developed
pneumonia and he was very
sick and most unfortunately
the ship's doctor was
magnificently arrayed in white
uniform with medals and monocle
and was always extremely drunk.
So it wasn't really very
reassuring. Fortunately, there
was penicillin and a good
nurse. Not a journey I'd
like to repeat.
The social setting that I found myself in
when we got a house in
Mont Albert... I don't know if Mont Albert
means anything to you, but it
definitely sort of middle
middle, established... Many older
people... respectable...
superficially perfectly
pleasant... 'dullsville'... emphasis
on appearance. No opportunity of
learning about Australia from
the casual contacts of the
neighborhood. There wasn't even
a public library in Box Hill.
No public library. How do you
find out about the country?
Well... buy "The Age" but...
Listen to "Blue Hills". There
was a lot of learning to do and
not actually many resources.
I remember John came home one day
and he said "you know, you can
do a part time degree". I did
the usual sort of bitter and
twisted "Oh in my spare time, I
suppose, Dear" And he said,
"Well, oh okay, think about it
because if you stay concentrated on
the children - which you've got
more than enough to do - but if
you do that, they are going to
grow up in an entirely different
culture from the one that you
brought with you.
If you're not awfully careful,
you're gonna be stuck... Why not
give it a go?" When John
said do a part-time degree - and
that was extraordinarily
enlightened. So, I did actually
start French which was
perfectly manageable because
first year French here was more
or less a rerun of the high school
student French that I'd done
at school and then I found I
could do it and it was fine and
one thing lead to another and
then I was appointed to a lectureship
at Monash. Taught in the Politics
Department and first year
politics and also I've
developed a course in urban
politics. So, I've
actually published quite a bit
on art history, but really
I'm basically a political
scientist. Honours in Political
Science from the University of
Melbourne. I've got a Masters in
Art History from the University
of Melbourne. I've got a PhD
from Monash in Politics and
I've got a PhD from the ANU in Art History
In Australia, it's
only fairly recently that you
didn't have to resign when you
got married. So that women no
longer are in the domestic
box as it were, and I think that
the sharing of childcare has
changed very substantially.
The fathers are much more
hands-on than they used to be.
My grandsons for example are, as
fathers, totally different from
my late husband. I mean, God
bless him, he was absolutely
marvelous and I was devoted to
him, but as a hands-on father
he was terrible. He couldn't
change a nappy. He couldn't do
anything. That that wasn't him,
but whereas my
grandsons, they're absolutely
wonderful. That's one good
consequence. I think
women now do have additional
strains because you've got your
work pressure, you've got your
home pressures, and an awful lot
does depend on the
extent of which there is
sharing of the chores and it's
usually very unequal.
I think we've been treading water since
the election that gave us, God
help us, Abbott and we've just
been treading water and...
But you can't you can't stop
the virus by treading water...
although I think by and large on the
whole they've handled the virus
thing pretty well. Climate
change, they are absolutely
appalling but if you can't get
it top down, bottom up is
happening quite significantly
and I think they're being
pushed in the direction of,
let's say, treating the present
situation as a climate
emergency. I think that is
coming... organized - not
through social media. Social
media is just... social media makes
me frightened because I think
of Trump.
We're living in a very...
I think the polite word is
"challenging situation". Not
actually very cheerful
prospects. I mean, you've got
clowns like self-interested,
idiotic people like Boris in
England. You you've got
dangerous maniacs like Trump in
the States. You've got a
marketing man in Australia, God
help us.
To be 100 doesn't matter. What
matters is the degree to
which you suffer from
disabilities, the extent which
those disabilities can be
compensated for, and the extent
to which you have the sort of
support you need in order to
live the life that you need or
would like to live.
I suffer from macular degeneration and
I have injections in my eye.
Now, I pay for that. It's not
on national health. If I
couldn't afford to pay for it,
I would be getting drops which
would mean I wouldn't be able
to read. Now, that's not fair.
But it doesn't mean that I say,
"Okay, I won't do it". I've got
the money. I'll use it. But it's
still not fair.
You see, now my little great grandson
who is Katie's
grandson... He'd be starting
school in February... And if
he asked me something and I say "I'm
sorry my love I don't know",
he gives me a stern look and
says, "Look it up!"
Well, ok, I can... And that's something
that I think is tremendously
important. If somebody would
only listen to me, the one
thing that older people need
nowadays is that, before you
retire from work, before you
get the pension, you should be
given the opportunity of
actually becoming computer
literate because if you're not
computer literate, you're ****
Sorry, lop that out. But it's true.
I've got friends whose only
access to the world - they're
not quite as old as me but you
know, roughly my generation...
They've got the radio. They've got
a telephone. Come on! Nowadays?
That's not a lifeline. It's a
shocker!
If that message goes to
somebody who listens then I
haven't wasted my time.
You see, because if you're not
basically computer literate,
you can't keep up, and so things
like Zoom and WhatsApp... I've got
a friend. I can't send her
photographs because she hasn't got
a computer. Whereas with WhatsApp
I'm exchanging photographs and
things with my granddaughter
who is living on the top of
a mountain in France...
Different world.